Vasectomy reversal surgeries are expensive and not covered by most health insurance policies. You might not have the money for the reversal surgery. Now it’s up to you to decide whether you are going to stay or leave. Seriously, this can be the reality of your situation. He’s had a vasectomy for a reason and might never want kids again. Ladies, there are a few things to keep in mind, When you’re dating a guy with kids and a vasectomy, nobody sits you down and asks “do you understand what you’re getting yourself into?’’ So I’m going to lay it out for you. Then you have the women who have dreamt of having children since they were little girls. For others, like me, I made damn sure that guy knew that I might want kids of my own someday. Some women might not care, you never wanted kids and never expected to have stepchildren. Congratulations! But wait, there is one drawback.

You might be on the verge of getting serious with that guy who has kids or you’re about to get married and officially become a stepmom. What’s even more shocking? Second marriages with kids involved have an even worse track record. So let’s be brutally honest here, many first marriages fail.